Women and Battleship

  Women is a beautiful creature made by god in this earth, who creates the nature. This might be the reason we people compare our earth with mother as “ Mother Earth”. No other word can standby before the word “Mother”. A strongest word carrying lots of emotions.

Before I start to present about such a breath-taking topic. I asked a men, can you please say a few words about women?

He answered opening google in his phone and replied me “ An adult female human; All females are collectively womankind. He had a cunning smile on his face and said, A women might be a wife, sometimes a fiancee or girl friend. Again he murmured but I said to stop and please step ahead. Because I need a genuine answer not a collective google representation. I personally had this question to myself and come up with curious answers. The word Women means female not only its related to her feminism but also her routine life where she is bounded with emotions and a bit of courage, encouraging herself for all her activities, she easily won’t give up. She work on all these not because to make herself in a comfort zone, but to the relation which she is responsible, to lead their lives easy.

Now we might have a question lingering on our mind, the topic is about women and Battlefield, how these both are inter-related?

I answer yes, these two are interconnected with each other. Let us leave current era for a while and find the answers in epics, say Draupati Pandavas: A Queen who has been insulted in the kingdom in front of her husbands and also in presence of her own praja. Still she always obey her husbands, proved to be a good queen, good daughter-in-law, also good enemy for kauravas, she is the first reason to start the war through Dharma vs Adharma. Being a queen, in 12years vanavasa and 1year agyatavasa(exile) she made herself comfort wherever her husbands into the forest. Everyday she faced new challenges, but she deal carefully.

Rama sita: Sita devi who crossed 14 years vanavasam and being kidnapped by Ravana, still had a trust and faith towards her husband. Even after war when she returned to her kingdom after few days this pregnant lady due to some condemnation has to return forest. She continued her life with lots of pain and suffer still she grew her children, made them trained under Guru Valmiki and finally handover to rama and left with her mother(mother of land).In this whole process sita devi is the only one who being a god, facing no. of emotions, depressions, insults still won all her battles to present luxury life to her husband and childrens.

Listening these beautiful examples we might think they are gods, they might handle well. But gladly we can say ‘yes’, we had also ‘draupatis’ and ‘sitas’ in this generation. How? Let me explain you from a girl to women.

A girl who has to compete with herself, with opposite sex, with her education, with family, with society. She struggles and settles down in order to prevent herself from getting married and proves her capacity what she got trained with.

She creates a space to lead a comfortable life called Job/work, where being dominated with male hypocritism again quick up herself to the next challenge with a proverb “Not only you even I can.”

A women if she is illiterate facing no. of insults, with her husband or with his family, the lady who sacrifices her 20-25 years initial and tagged with the name of her husband forever, the lady who sacrifices her favorite food, sleep, dressing, works and fill herself with compromises just to satisfy her children and her life partner.

An educated women who works need to manage her personal and professional life gently if she miss any of them it affects worst in her life. Knowing all these still she accepts these provocations and try to lead herself.

We al know just saying Men and Women are equal doesn’t mean everything seems cool.Giving respect to each women equally even if she is your mother/wife/daughter/sister/girl friend helps her to encourage her self-confidence. A men is bounded with responsibilities, yes we agree, but coming to woman she is bounded with society cum responsibilities cum families. A women never give up easily. She enters to battlefield through enduring her menstrual pains, accepts herself to being a wife, she wins to give birth to a baby knowing that she need to sacrifice her beauty, food and sleep, she care her child and protect from the evil society, she face all these tough days, wins millions of battles in her entire life and convert the tough into happy days, all these battles only a women can acquire.

Being a women a pretty attitude comes because even after lots of battles we fought, we always hides them and control ourselves with a charm on our face reminding our self with a simple quote ‘I am a women, I can do it’.